Messages from a Mess

Written on Saturday, September 19, 2015 by Siddharth PV

Mumbai Airport, 19th Sept, 2015

When I came I was a mess
This I must confess

My confidence at a significant low
My body had also dealt a big blow -
A thing of pride and pleasure
Was complaining of too much pressure

But since then over a month has passed
And I many a lesson have amassed

There's nothing strikingly new
But have insights emerged quite a few
A reinforcement of the fact
That most effective are the simplest didacts

Just entered the port again
To take at promising opportunities an aim

But this time it feels different..

Of the outcome I am less sure
But I am sure I will endure
All I have to do..
Is by the basics persevere..

I must know all will be well
And that sincerity will a just fortune tell

Sometimes it might take a while
And difficult will it be meanwhile
But persist I must on the right cause
Without taking too long a pause

For if there's one thing I have learnt under duress
Is that faith and efforts are a man's only redress

Since efforts will your fortune tell
In the end all will be well

The Anatomy of Determination

Written on Tuesday, September 15, 2009 by Siddharth PV

Some excerpts from a really thought provoking essay by Paul Graham.
--
Excuse: He did well because he's talented...
But while it certainly helps to be smart, it's not the deciding factor. There are plenty of people as smart as Bill Gates who achieve nothing.
In most domains, talent is overrated compared to determination—partly because it makes a better story, partly because it gives onlookers an excuse for being lazy, and partly because after a while determination starts to look like talent.

--
The Elements of Determination
Wilfulness:
"When you want something, you must have it, no matter what."
* A good deal of willfulness must be inborn. Circumstances can alter it, but at the high end of the scale, nature seems to be more important than nurture.
* Bad circumstances can break the spirit of a strong-willed person, but I don't think there's much you can do to make a weak-willed person stronger-willed.
* Willfulness clearly has two subcomponents, stubbornness and energy. The first alone yields someone who's stubbornly inert. The second alone yields someone flighty. As willful people get older or otherwise lose their energy, they tend to become merely stubborn.

Discipline:
* Determination implies your willfulness is balanced by discipline.
* The more willful you are, the more disciplined you have to be. The stronger your will, the less anyone will be able to argue with you except yourself. And someone has to argue with you, because everyone has base impulses, and if you have more will than discipline you'll just give into them and end up on a local maximum like drug addiction.
* The more willful you are, the more dangerous it is to be undisciplined.
* If you're sufficiently determined to achieve great things, this will probably increase the number of temptations around you. Unless you become proportionally more disciplined, willfulness will then get the upper hand, and your achievement will revert to the mean.

Ambition:
* Willfulness and discipline are what get you to your destination, ambition is how you choose it.
* Most people don't know how ambitious to be, especially when they're young.
* Probably most ambitious people are starved for the sort of encouragement they'd get from ambitious peers, whatever their age.
... (which means, a man is truly defined by the company he keeps)

Summary:
Determination = willfulness balanced with discipline, aimed by ambition
And fortunately at least two of these three qualities can be cultivated. You may be able to increase your strength of will somewhat; you can definitely learn self-discipline; and almost everyone is practically malnourished when it comes to ambition (so you should always be on the lookout for ambitous people).
--
Practical application to daily work life:
Most types of work have aspects one doesn't like, because most types of work consist of doing things for other people, and it's very unlikely that the tasks imposed by their needs will happen to align exactly with what you want to do.
Indeed, if you want to create the most wealth, the way to do it is to focus more on their needs than your interests, and make up the difference with determination.

Brick walls are there for a reason...

Written on Friday, October 24, 2008 by Siddharth PV

Brick walls are there for a reason...

They give us a chance to show HOW BADLY we want something...

If you want something really bad, you will find a way to crash through
/ go past the brick wall...

From 'The Last Lecture' by Randy Pausch

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Messages from a Mess

Mumbai Airport, 19th Sept, 2015

When I came I was a mess
This I must confess

My confidence at a significant low
My body had also dealt a big blow -
A thing of pride and pleasure
Was complaining of too much pressure

But since then over a month has passed
And I many a lesson have amassed

There's nothing strikingly new
But have insights emerged quite a few
A reinforcement of the fact
That most effective are the simplest didacts

Just entered the port again
To take at promising opportunities an aim

But this time it feels different..

Of the outcome I am less sure
But I am sure I will endure
All I have to do..
Is by the basics persevere..

I must know all will be well
And that sincerity will a just fortune tell

Sometimes it might take a while
And difficult will it be meanwhile
But persist I must on the right cause
Without taking too long a pause

For if there's one thing I have learnt under duress
Is that faith and efforts are a man's only redress

Since efforts will your fortune tell
In the end all will be well

The Anatomy of Determination

Some excerpts from a really thought provoking essay by Paul Graham.
--
Excuse: He did well because he's talented...
But while it certainly helps to be smart, it's not the deciding factor. There are plenty of people as smart as Bill Gates who achieve nothing.
In most domains, talent is overrated compared to determination—partly because it makes a better story, partly because it gives onlookers an excuse for being lazy, and partly because after a while determination starts to look like talent.

--
The Elements of Determination
Wilfulness:
"When you want something, you must have it, no matter what."
* A good deal of willfulness must be inborn. Circumstances can alter it, but at the high end of the scale, nature seems to be more important than nurture.
* Bad circumstances can break the spirit of a strong-willed person, but I don't think there's much you can do to make a weak-willed person stronger-willed.
* Willfulness clearly has two subcomponents, stubbornness and energy. The first alone yields someone who's stubbornly inert. The second alone yields someone flighty. As willful people get older or otherwise lose their energy, they tend to become merely stubborn.

Discipline:
* Determination implies your willfulness is balanced by discipline.
* The more willful you are, the more disciplined you have to be. The stronger your will, the less anyone will be able to argue with you except yourself. And someone has to argue with you, because everyone has base impulses, and if you have more will than discipline you'll just give into them and end up on a local maximum like drug addiction.
* The more willful you are, the more dangerous it is to be undisciplined.
* If you're sufficiently determined to achieve great things, this will probably increase the number of temptations around you. Unless you become proportionally more disciplined, willfulness will then get the upper hand, and your achievement will revert to the mean.

Ambition:
* Willfulness and discipline are what get you to your destination, ambition is how you choose it.
* Most people don't know how ambitious to be, especially when they're young.
* Probably most ambitious people are starved for the sort of encouragement they'd get from ambitious peers, whatever their age.
... (which means, a man is truly defined by the company he keeps)

Summary:
Determination = willfulness balanced with discipline, aimed by ambition
And fortunately at least two of these three qualities can be cultivated. You may be able to increase your strength of will somewhat; you can definitely learn self-discipline; and almost everyone is practically malnourished when it comes to ambition (so you should always be on the lookout for ambitous people).
--
Practical application to daily work life:
Most types of work have aspects one doesn't like, because most types of work consist of doing things for other people, and it's very unlikely that the tasks imposed by their needs will happen to align exactly with what you want to do.
Indeed, if you want to create the most wealth, the way to do it is to focus more on their needs than your interests, and make up the difference with determination.

Brick walls are there for a reason...

Brick walls are there for a reason...

They give us a chance to show HOW BADLY we want something...

If you want something really bad, you will find a way to crash through
/ go past the brick wall...

From 'The Last Lecture' by Randy Pausch